Is it possible for a man to tell the girl he loved to leave him be, only bcos he wants to work on his marriage?

oh yes sweetie, just a matter of time. Cause guess what? he is getting away with it. Because he has not only one, but two women in his life that are being stupid enough to let him. He is getting everything he wants. And there are no consequences. I know you don't want to hear it, but your husband is a cheater. And he will continue to be one. Because he can.