My family doesn't want to help me out for nothing. I only have one month left. HELP PLEASE?

I am 19 years old. 20 on October 18. Getting married on July 4. I have been with my man for four years on July 4. I am still a virgin waiting till marriage. My man is 27. He has waited on me for four years now to make love. The reason I am getting married so young is for him. I want him to still be young when we start a family later on. We had a little fight in January. We made an agreement to forget about the past. We have talked about marriage ever since we have been together. We just haven't started plans. In February we talked about getting married for sure. So he said to pick a date and the only date I could think of was July 4. The day we got together I thought it would be perfect. I have been looking for some online resources for wedding tips and ideas. Did not find anything and decided to forget it and go to the courthouse to get married. So the other day I got online typed on google local weddings. So now I found a few local places to have a ceremony and reception. I only have