Please? advice? thanks :)?

K well, i was grown up with strict parents and my mom used to hit me for any stupid reason. like opening the ham the wrong way. gettin in her way. and ever since then we barely get along. my dad moved out of the house and left us behind and now i live with my sister and mom. I had a few bfs in the past. They had cheated on me and the last one i had was abusive. my mom made me go to the cops to make a report but it was too late to press charges bc i had no evidence bruise etc. I met this guy online and he wanted to meet me so we went out out on a date and on the way back to his house he crashed his car. its been a week and a half since ive been talking to him and i feel like i really like this kid even though its been so short of a time. When i first met him my heart raced and my knees wobble and theres not alot of guys who make me feel that way. so 2 days ago, he invited me to go to gotham with my friend. so i did and i ended up dancing with other guys. he saw me and said hi, but never danced with me or approach me the whole night. that same night he sended me a text sayin that he was sorry he didnt dance with me like he said he was. and that he really wanted to. but i think that might be bull **** since i caught him by himself wen i said hi. i noticed that when he came to the club he was with a group of girls and guys.. he tells me he wants to get to know me and see what happens. but how am i suppose to believe he really is into me if he didnt dance with me or approach me at the club. and when we do hang out he kisses me and we make out... but if he was interested in gettin to know me, why would he go with girls to the clubs and go clubbin fri sat and sun. iam so confused. i was totallt honest with him and i told him how i felt. i said idk if we should talk because i feel like your not so into me and i dont want to end up hurt. and he said well it takes time for love... what should i do? iam confused? i think i might have scared him away by telling him how i felt? and do u think maybe hes just trying to trick me into getting in bed?? sometimes i feel like hes too good to be true and he certainly has alot of beautiful friends that are girls.